My wife is a T3-T4 complete since December. I had to do all of her care initially but now we are moving away from that as she becomes more independent. I still help out with "accidents" and help move her from one spot to the other but generally don't have to do the real gritty stuff anymore. We spend some quality time together but at this time maybe I to am afraid of hurting her and perhaps "using" her so not yet. She has lots of pain. I do have to say that she is still a beautiful woman and I am very attracted to her so maybe one day soon
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Thank you everybody for your responses. My husband and I are still figuring out how to do "this", and I think just like any other obstacle in a marriage, you either work through it or you don't. We are choosing to work through. He is working through the depression, I am working through the body image issues. That part is taking a while, I have to admit...
on that note, I do believe the original title of my post was "Any Married Quads out There?'' I am not sure how it got changed???
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While I realize this thread is older and I dont have any direct input on this topic, Im the AB and my partner is SCI. I found great solace in reading these posts. Its nice to have a place where its normal and completely safe to talk about the stuff we deal with daily! Thanks for having me ladies. Im new around here, if ya didnt notice HA
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Originally posted by Loves2rescue View PostWhile I realize this thread is older and I dont have any direct input on this topic, Im the AB and my partner is SCI. I found great solace in reading these posts. Its nice to have a place where its normal and completely safe to talk about the stuff we deal with daily! Thanks for having me ladies. Im new around here, if ya didnt notice HA
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What is the meaning of the picture Leif? I am confused.
My hubby and I will be married 20 years in July 2010. I have been injured 3 years. It has been a rocky road but we are getting better. I am pretty independent with my care. He has helped me in the past. My new doc. wants me more independent but a lot of what he helps me with now is what he has in the past. We have always done a lot of things together. If push came to shove, I could do it. I just hope we can let him know that.
Interesting thread. I hope it continues.
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