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    Me and dave split up. We were together for 2 years. It was not working out between us. What I am finding hard is explaining to my daughter because she grew close to him. My son understands but how to tell my daughter i am still trying to figure out. anty

    Trying to change my name on here. Want to go back to just anty
    Be always determined in Life and Love

  • #2
    Oh Anty honey I'm sorry. I know you were crazy about him, honestly it kind of made me nervous because nobody is 100% perfect. Any chance things will work out in the long run? You know what they say, for every pot there's a lid. I hate that yours didn't fit though. I hope you don't feel sad. This is a bullshit birthday present for you!

    Your daughter will be ok, I promise. She may be confused at first but as long as she has you, she's golden.
    Does This Wheelchair Make My Ass Look Fat?


    • #3
      Sorry to hear this Anty.Things will workout for you.Your daughter will be fine.Just hang in there.Sorry you are going through this.
      Be yourself!!!
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      • #4
        Anty, so sorry to're in my thoughts and prayers...


        Been there, done HURTS.

        take care and God bless...



        • #5
          So sorry to hear this Anty. It is def. his loss.

          You can still post under ''anty''.

          Life isn't like a bowl of cherries or peaches. It's more like a jar of jalapenos--What you do today might burn your ass tomorrow.

          If you ain't laughing, you ain't living, baby. Carlos Mencia


          • #6
            Sorry to hear this Anty, breakups after LTR's can be very hard and sad. Try to look ahead to the future and think about all the good things in your life, dont let it stress you out too much, these kinds of things can take years off your life if you let em. Be tough and hang in there.
            "Life is about how you
            respond to not only the
            challenges you're dealt but
            the challenges you seek...If
            you have no goals, no
            mountains to climb, your
            soul dies".~Liz Fordred


            • #7
              I luv ya Ante and sending hugs your way. I hate to hear this.... Hopefully the kids will understand in time. If you need a shoulder, you know my phone number.
              T12-L2; Burst fracture L1: Incomplete walking with AFO's and cane since 1989

              My goal in life is to be as good of a person my dog already thinks I am. ~Author Unknown


              • #8
                I am sorry for your pain. I could not be perfect so I did the best I could. I am the break up King. I never got a clue?


                • #9
                  Poor Anty. Although I don't know you or your situation completely, my heart truley goes out to you. Just know that you have friends from all over the world here to listen and that care.As for your daughter, she will understand and adjust. It will be much more important to her to see you happy.


                  • #10
                    I'm sorry Anty.
                    4/6/97, car accident, C5.


                    • #11
                      I'm sorry too. Staying busy really helps and those kids of yours probably keep you real busy!
                      Roses are red. Tacos are enjoyable. Don't blame immigrants, because you're unemployable.

                      T-11 Flaccid Paraplegic due to TM July 1985 @ age 12


                      • #12
                        Time is the great healer.

                        "We have met the enemy and he is us."-POGO.

                        "I have great faith in fools; self-confidence my friends call it."~Edgar Allan Poe

                        "Dream big, you might never wake up!"- Snoop Dogg


                        • #13
                          I know you will be fine as well as your kids!!
                          Get involved in politics as if your life depended on it, because it does. -- Justin Dart

                          I shall not tolerate ignorance or hate speech on this site.


                          • #14
                            Thank you everyone. It helps to have friends and family around when you need them. You guys are great thanks for the pms and calls. anty
                            For every minute you're angry you lose a second of happiness


                            • #15
                              Sorry Anty, wish I had some magic words to fix things for you. Hope you're feeling better real soon.