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  • #16
    Originally posted by Patton57 View Post
    I told her I really didn't want her coming in. She came in anyway.
    She would need some history to justify such aggressive action. Otherwise, if she is trying to gain access to only your indoors without some history to justify it, then you have a legitimate complaint.

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    • #17
      Originally posted by Patton57 View Post
      One lady followed me inside my condo after insisting all the way down the hallway that she wanted to see my place. At my door, I told her I really didn't want her coming in. She came in anyway. Her face sank when she saw my place. The next day there were maid for hire ads up on several of our community bulletin boards. Another one of my neighbors comes onto my patio several times a month. There's nothing on it. I guess they could be checking out the door and windows.


      I'm a c7 and break my manual chair down on the drivers side of my car and truck several times a day. They take a beating. If I drove nicer vehicles they would take that beating. And it is a cumulative beating. My vehicles are 9 and 19 years old. If I wasn't disabled I would probably drive nicer cars.
      no way in hell would that happen where u guys live shees

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      • #18
        Originally posted by vjls View Post
        no way in hell would that happen where u guys live shees

        Yeah. The law says we can shoot uninvited guests inside our homes around here. Not that I would. Maybe. But people know better.
        "I have great faith in fools; self-confidence my friends call it." - Edgar Allen Poe

        "If you only know your side of an issue, you know nothing." -John Stuart Mill, On Liberty

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        • #19
          Can you get them to scrub your toilet? Maybe get a wet mop and stick it in their face after they cross your threshold. You can't legislate behavior as much as we try. Unless you move to a farm or house with a fenced yard I don't know how you can avoid some interaction with people. I did hang cheap mirror film in one of my early apt windows.
          "Never turn your back on fear. It should always be in front of you, like a thing that might have to be killed." - Hunter Thompson
          T5/6 complete

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          • #20
            All are interesting suggestions. Thanks for the feedback!

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            • #21
              Originally posted by Rook98006 View Post
              Can you get them to scrub your toilet? Maybe get a wet mop and stick it in their face after they cross your threshold. You can't legislate behavior as much as we try. Unless you move to a farm or house with a fenced yard I don't know how you can avoid some interaction with people. I did hang cheap mirror film in one of my early apt windows.
              That's a great suggestion, when they come over put them to work, that'll keep them away.

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              • #22
                I never did see the attraction of condos and HOA's meddling into your affairs, at your expense. Best to avoid entering into such 'agreements' IMO.

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                • #23
                  Originally posted by Patton57 View Post
                  I'm a C7 complete (28 yrs post) living on my own in a higher end condo development. I'm on the ground level and usually leave the blinds open. The old ladies in my development are always looking in the windows and talking about the state of my unit. They have gone as far as following me to my door and insisting on helping me carry groceries in so they can get in and comment. It feels like concerted harrassment. Has anyone dealt with this legally/formally?

                  On a slightly different but I think related front, I was in the hospital in January 2016 for five days and must have been asked about 10 times by health care providers whether anyone in my life or environment was controling/bullying/abusing me. They usually followed up with asking if anyone is doing anything to me without my consent or intimidating me because of my limitations.

                  Perhaps SCIs fit under the umbrella of elder abuse laws as well? Any thoughts? I'm pretty tough and thick skinned but it has been ongoing for over 2 years. I don't mean to sound like a wuss either but it does wear on you after a while.
                  Sorry for what you are going through but maybe I read this wrong? Nosey neighbors in definitely not abuse or bullying...

                  We all deal with it from high end to low income . We all live a life of lookers, gawkers and people just being rude. I would toughen up and leave those windows open!!

                  Its your life live it how you want...Who cares who looks in be free and dont let some crazy people dictate your spirit and your happiness!!

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                  • #24
                    How messy is your place ? Just get a maid once a week ? What was your tone like when you said you didn’t want her coming in ? I wouldn’t put up with them nosey dames. You should knock on her door and just roll right in, see what’s in the fridge, lol.
                    Canadian bacon is a fraud !!!!

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