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    #16
    So much sad reality in this troubled world. So few good answers.

    My one suggestion is that your daughter will always have this woman as a birth mother. Your daughter will know that those genes are part of the girl she is and the woman she will become. Please understand that anything negative you say about her mother becomes a burden your daughter will have to carry.
    Foolish

    "We have met the enemy and he is us."-POGO.

    "I have great faith in fools; self-confidence my friends call it."~Edgar Allan Poe

    "Dream big, you might never wake up!"- Snoop Dogg

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      #17
      My daughter 9 month old so she won't remeber this. I know she is sick and needs help. I want her to get help before being around her again. I'm not going to talk bad about her. It is her mom and always will be.

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        #18
        Originally posted by tigger74 View Post
        My daughter 9 month old so she won't remeber this. I know she is sick and needs help. I want her to get help before being around her again. I'm not going to talk bad about her. It is her mom and always will be.
        Foolish

        "We have met the enemy and he is us."-POGO.

        "I have great faith in fools; self-confidence my friends call it."~Edgar Allan Poe

        "Dream big, you might never wake up!"- Snoop Dogg

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          #19
          She's fighting custody now doesn't want give her to me and my parents. Because I'm a C-7 Quad. Also saying I'm not the father of her. She wrote in her baby book about I'm more man then anybody she knows. I own my own house, van and have my own business. She has no house, no job, 7000 credit card debit and all her other problems. She used me for 3 years. Cheated and lied every chance she had. She will destroy this girl if she gets her. I have 17 year old son I've rasied 2 years walking and the rest in a chair. He's one of the mot caring, helpful and giving kids. He's apart of K-life groups and all A's. I don't want to lose my girl....

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            #20
            We support you. So sorry you have to go through this.

            Originally posted by tigger74 View Post
            She's fighting custody now doesn't want give her to me and my parents. Because I'm a C-7 Quad. Also saying I'm not the father of her. She wrote in her baby book about I'm more man then anybody she knows. I own my own house, van and have my own business. She has no house, no job, 7000 credit card debit and all her other problems. She used me for 3 years. Cheated and lied every chance she had. She will destroy this girl if she gets her. I have 17 year old son I've rasied 2 years walking and the rest in a chair. He's one of the mot caring, helpful and giving kids. He's apart of K-life groups and all A's. I don't want to lose my girl....
            "The trick is in what one emphasizes. We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves happy. The amount of work is the same.” ~Carlos Castaneda

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              #21
              Oh no....I feel for you. Sounds like you will have to have a lawyer.

              I truly hope she doesn't try to use your disability against you. I don't understand how people can be so mean and cruel.

              Be strong and remember that she is the one with the problems. She is playing a manipulation game by telling you these cruel things.
              Last edited by darkeyed_daisy; 18 Apr 2012, 3:26 PM.
              T12-L2; Burst fracture L1: Incomplete walking with AFO's and cane since 1989

              My goal in life is to be as good of a person my dog already thinks I am. ~Author Unknown

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                #22
                I hired a laywer the next morning after this happen. Thanks

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                  #23
                  I don't think her claiming the baby is not yours is going to fly. are you the one listed on the birth certificate as her father?

                  I knew of a man who was proven not to be the biological father after his ex sprang that on him at the hearings, yet still had to pay child support, because he was on the birth certificate as the father.

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                    #24
                    yeah I am and I signed a paper saying I was

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                      #25
                      I googled a mans rights, and not the father pay anyway, and there are tons and tons of articles about men later proven not to be the father and having to pay anyway because he is on the childs birth papers, or he did not do dna in a timely manor. one judge even said it isn't the kids fault the mother lied, and that He is the only father they know and they should not suffer because of stupid parents.


                      I googled A mans rights custody and a lot came up that may help you know where to start.

                      Your being disable is not an issue. in fact she is somewhat disabled with untreated bipolar disorder. so it would be in her best interest to agree to shared custody with one or the other of you having physical custody, or temporary physical custody pending later hearings and the mother is in and responding to court ordered treatment for her behavioral disorder.

                      She messed up, but that does not mean you can just take her kid away, and she cannot just take your kid away ether. If she miss lead you, to believe you are the father, there is no other man claiming paternity, and you failed to get a DNA test before signing as the father of the baby, ...... Well luckily you do have rights as a parent, presumed parent, and as a father.

                      she can't say you are the father, have you sign the birth documents, let everyone else believe you are the father, the baby knows you as her father, and then just say nope, not yours see ya! that would not be in the mothers best interest in a custody battle.

                      get a consult from a lawyer who has represented the disable in child custody. also the grandparents have some rights and can petition for joint custody and visitation.

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                        #26
                        Just love the little wee one. You are heading into ugly ugly and often disappointing waters...You are a strong and good man. Just keep that in mind...and always do the right thing.

                        mary
                        1FineSpineRN

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                          #27
                          Well after all this crap she wanted a DNA test and guess what i'm not the father. After being there every day for the past 10 months. My mom and dad has spent their time and thousands of dollars. So have I. It's just like she died to me. I have no rights to her anymore. My little girl looks just like me blue eyes and cotton top. She looks like my son to. My poor girl will be treated like shit from now on. Life's not fair...

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                            #28
                            Please help me

                            Please help me
                            Last edited by tigger74; 16 May 2012, 7:27 PM.

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                              #29
                              Are you sure? Here you would have been seen as the father with the birth certificate or if you were married, no matter what the DNA shows.

                              But I am so sorry for the little girl if she can't stay with you.
                              TH 12, 43 years post

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                                #30
                                Yes I'm on the birth certificate and signed papers at the hospital I was. She told me I was. Not married, been together almost 3 years.

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